Bits &Pieces of thoughts .. Me.

Starfish

What i am.

Think about Being..

a wabbit ☺ unskilled and unaware of it ☺ humble ☺ louder than life ☺ passionate ☺ full of empathy ☺ irritated

SaY SomEthIng!!

ASSUME: ASS U ME

17.5.06

Possibly, one of the reasons why im so frank is because i hate people who assume. Its as if im afraid the person will misunderstand me if i dont spit the sentence out bluntly, as plain as possible. I also dislike it when people beat around the bush when trying to ask a favour of me, though i do understand that its actually an attempt at being polite. Most of the time i just play blur which forces the person to come right out and ask me directly - Sorry jo!

Hah, the ironic thing is that, quite often, i assume a lot too. Then my frankness based on an assumption is just, another assumption.

A lot of things are left unsaid, for whatever reason, get cast aside as time sweeps on by. The longer it is left that way, the deeper down it goes and it gets harder to bring up the point.

Then i realised, my parents assume a lot too. Its more of a simply saying things a.k.a jumping to conclusions. ITs so infuriating!! Like if i dont hear them calling me when im in my room , automatic assumption: she is on the phone. Dad will say
'This Su ar.. ALwAYs on the phone, always poh tim wah cuk.. '. And the worse part is, he will always just mutter this under his breathe , so unless i can hear it, he truly believes that and then very not happy about it, possible bad mood later. And WHAT can i do about it? NOthing because .. i dont know, i didnt hear him say it.. and the best part? I WAS NOT EVEN ON THE PHONE LAR!

well well. but what can i do? Unless the person comes to me and brings the subject to surface.

posted by su @ 6:18 PM

1 Comments:

At 1:55 AM GMT+11, WilZC said…

amusing.....
really...
assumptions..
expectations..
pre-assumptions..
pre-expectations...
and the way human nature makes our minds think...